The situation when children behave badly and beat their parents is widely known. This does not mean that parents are not trying to teach how to behave, just because of age, circumstances or the environment, the baby began to behave badly and stopped listening to them.
A child beats mom how to behave
Exceptional nerves and the correctness of retaliatory actions are not everyone boasts.
Shock response may be the following:
- give back in response (pull, slap, bite, pinch);
- discuss the situation and punishment;
- act like nothing happened.
Let's “lay out” the nuances of the situation. Basically, this behavior does not carry a deliberate desire to hurt a loved one. So emotions can be expressed, both negative and positive.
The approach to the problem should be wise, weaning a child to do bad is not easy.
Tip 1: find the strength in you to conduct a dialogue, assess the situation in a clear language and explain to the child that such behavior is unacceptable;
Tip 2: you can’t say that your baby is bad, and that no one else will love her, and no one will be friends and play with her.
Tip 3: say how important it is to behave peacefully. Play games like a theater where the main character is friends with everyone.
Tip 4: Tell us how you rejoice when no one offends anyone, and everyone behaves well.
Why is the baby beating mom
The desire to beat someone can be explained by interest in reacting to such an act. The child hits the face of the mother what to do? A little advice - find out the nature of the manifestations - these are light hand strokes from joy or with all force from anger.
In any case, these are emotions that cannot be expressed in words. Teach you how to talk about your feelings, listen and try to be calm.
According to psychologists, fights are the result of understatement, eliminating which it is much easier to wean this. The crumbs also have a bad mood due to the breakdown of their favorite toy, something hurts, lacks attention or is boring at home, because it behaves this way.
Why a baby beats mom reasons
When a baby hits or bites her mother, it seems that this is the result of a lack of education. There is a deal of truth in it. Correct parenting is an example of family relationships. If parents fight among themselves, why not behave the same?
Consider the atmosphere of the house, try to protect from scandals and screams. Then information presented in a strict tone will be better perceived. The basis for improper behavior can be:
• Congenital mental problem;
• Aggression of relatives;
• Cartoons with elements of aggression of heroes;
• Lack of daily routine;
• Unfulfillment.
2 year old baby beats mom
Two-year-olds are guided mainly by instincts. There is a negative emotion that needs to be thrown out. At 2 years, the adequacy of actions is not yet recognized. The same mechanism with positive emotions: who first of all wants to brag of achievements? To close people.
All instinctive acts must receive the same answer.Hit you - give change, the main thing is to control the force. This is not about causing physical pain, you need to wean from assault, making it clear that such behavior does not like others.
Parents' mood is caught lightning fast at 2 years old, therefore they should be serious and strict at this moment. To avoid conflicts with the two-year-old, find an interesting occupation: drawing, modeling, cutting - all this takes a lot of time and serves as a distracting maneuver.
3 year old baby beats mom
At 3 years old, actions become conscious - the behavior pattern of parents and friends is studied. Why do you think grandma’s pampering and disobedience begin? Because there they are allowed to check the nerves for strength. The same situation with fights at 3 years: measures are not taken - you can continue.
Adviceif in 3 years there was such a conflict, you need:
• Take aside and start a conversation about his behavior. Remember, the tone should be the same as when talking with adults.
• If it is impossible to take it aside, the conversation should take place at home
It’s not worthwhile to strike back, only a discussion of the problem will help to solve it and prevent it in the future. The three-year-old perceives physical violence as a green light for repetition. He knows that it’s possible for mom - then it is possible for him.
Remember, now is the time to determine how you will behave. At 3 years old, the ability to learn balance, respect for elders appears. The desire to grow up soon will play on your side if you tell us about how adults behave.
A child beats mom at 5 years old
At the age of five, he beats his mother with 100% consciously. This is not a manifestation of emotions, as happens in 2 years, but a protest against established rules. Talk about how to behave was not heard, because the information was conveyed in the wrong way.
Finding the reason for this behavior at this stage is more difficult. One advice - you need to analyze the environment, the information received and the behavior of adults. Put things aside and spend the day together: play and watch cartoons, watching the manifestations of emotions.
If the baby has a tendency to cartoons with elements of aggressive behavior of the protagonist (for example, zombies) - immediately exclude them.
You should not be allowed to spend a lot of time playing computer games, as they can adversely affect the children's psyche. Now is the time to find a section (drawing, boxing, dancing, vocals, etc.), there will remain a lot of strength, and aggression will begin to subside.
A child beats mom how to wean
It happens that all the tips on how to wean from bursts of negative emotions are ineffective. Then the question arises of how to wean others from hurting others. It is important to remember that you cannot fight back. You are an adult, whose task is to wean, and not beat, less!
What can i doto wean:
1) Condemn the action, but not the child;
2) Explain how to pour out emotions without the use of physical force;
3) Be strict, but not aggressive;
4) Talk about your emotions that caused the blow;
5) Bring the right examples from the cartoons;
6) Show an example of good behavior.
What can not be doneif you want to wean:
1) Punish and scream;
2) Bring the child to hysteria;
3) Too limit its actions;
4) Leave the child alone in the room to think about their actions.
At the age of five, the baby does not always feel shame from his own actions, but he must always know the limits of what is permitted. Acceptable measures should be in every family. This is a status that everyone should adhere to, regardless of age.
