The psyche of the child in such an early period is quite vulnerable. After all, he knows how to perceive the emotions of others, to be offended, to shame, to be disappointed, this is exactly what he realizes at this age.
Many people think that if a baby has grown up and finds activities for itself, then he should not pay special attention to his education. Parents spend a lot of time on their affairs, forgetting about him, that he always wants to be paid attention to, wants to know that they love him.
Very important at this age, adhere to the methods of psychology to conduct joint games, read books, do classes, housework, because behavior is built on the imitation of an adult, it is joint pastime is the most important.
The kid should feel his responsibility in the case allotted for him, it is also necessary to praise him if he succeeded in doing something. If he tried, but couldn’t do it, you still need to praise and say, “Next time, it’s sure to work out.”
The tasks of raising and educating the child
The main tasks of raising and educating boys and girls at 4-5 and 6 years old depend on parents and harmony in the family, first of all:
- teach them how to communicate in society;
- give as much information and knowledge as possible;
- give thanks for the help and presentations;
- respect the elders and not interrupt them during the conversation.
Psychology shows that at this age, love comes out to speak in front of others, a desire to recite poems, dance, sing, so the task of parents is to help and develop the talents of their children.
Behavior and education
Proper education and behavior in the period of 4-5 years develops cognitive activity well. It is necessary to carry out tasks that psychology recommends to try to adhere to certain methods, find time to communicate with the child as often as possible, give him useful information, and teach everything new.
Now it’s the period when they are interested in everything, many questions arise, therefore dad for a boy, girls can become real "Teacher of life". Men know a lot of things and can easily give an answer to a child’s question.
Start to form moral qualities: sensitiveness, understanding, kindness, friendship are shown. It is necessary to support and teach the boy and girl to have a positive attitude towards others.
RDressers need to know the psychology of boys and girls. at this age and by example, teach them to learn the rules of a culture of behavior with their peers, seniors, perform tasks, learn how to behave properly in public places, how to share toys, where to give in, and where to stand your own way.
Five year old baby mood swings, unpredictability of behavior are characteristic, children become physically and psychologically hardy, can fulfill the tasks of the parent.
Now it’s easy to agree with them, parents should become best friends with them. A good upbringing is laid on love, which should be felt in any situations, even when done a bad thing, you do not need parents to be afraid.
Always be on the side of your child, trust him, help solve problems, be a support for him in life. Be able to always find an alternative, show understanding, without violating the individuality of a small person.
How to properly raise a child in 4 years of advice
Education should be correct, because this is an important age period for them. The personality traits are fixed and character is formed. A child copies in his life the behavior of his own parents, because adults are a role model for him.
In this period the main thing is to pay a lot of attention, to develop cognitive processes. Psychology offers to give the kid entertaining tasks, to tell a lot, he is interested and well remembered.
Develop some rules in the family and clearly monitor their implementation, for example, a child should be able to clean up after himself, put toys, throw garbage in a bucket, etc. But it is advisable not to forget to praise, to reward with a kiss for the work done.
Features of education
Features of raising a child 4 and 5 years old consist in the fact that they must adhere to established rules in the family, which should be strictly adhered to.
If mother forbade, then father should also be with mother. There should be no exception today is possible, but not tomorrow.
When raising parents must be observant and attentive in order to respond in time to the causes of disobedience.
Relations between parents and children are built continuously, daily. A peculiarity of upbringing is considered to be a correctly defined type of temperament, so given it can be confidently said that communication and upbringing will take place, much easier, correctly.
It is this rule that will help to create a harmonious personality. One should always try to build trusting relationships, develop their personality, not limit their imagination, be able to listen, laugh more often with children, learn to communicate, be able to correctly respond to tantrums, allow mistakes to be made and learn from them.
Moral education of the child
The child begins to voluntarily follow moral standards, he can correctly make the right moral choice in practice.
Psychology showsthat during this period he has developed the moral values of life and trusting people, sympathy is shown, guilt is shown, he becomes trusting.
For all moral norms, a social mode of behavior is fixed, for example: “You must not lie to adults”, “you cannot take someone else's”, etc. They know how to share what can be done and what cannot.
Moral development of children in 4-5 years of age signs:
they form the first moral judgments and assessments;
begin to understand the meaning of the moral norm;
the effectiveness of moral ideas is increasing;
conscious morality arises, that is, his behavior begins to adhere to moral standards.
Proper parenting counseling psychologist
Proper parenting advice to parents from psychology
1. No need to ask questions that provoke the bad;
2. Speak positive requests;
3. No need to explain to the child what he already knows;
4. No need to read hourly notations;
5. No need to manipulate a child
6. be able to find a compromise, learn to overcome difficulties in life;
Difficulties in education at 4 5 and 6 years
Educational difficulties arise when parents do not know the peculiarities of children's behavior and constantly demand from the child certain actions, achievements, do not take into account his personal opinion, do not allow them to make decisions independently, do not listen, constantly criticize, scold and humiliate.
In this case, the girl or boy closes completely, ceases to trust their parents, does everything in defiance and shows their character, does not study well at school, further problems in adulthood.
To avoid difficulties in education, you need to start applying the methods of psychology, first of all, you should learn to politely ask, and not order and demand, correctly respond to tantrums, develop a personality.
