Prayers have been used by people at all times, revealing sacred words extended to God. Thus, a person could pray for the necessary. The most common were prayers for health and love.
To whom to pray with a man’s love?
Many women and men fear unsuccessful relationships. Young girls and boys are afraid to start a romantic relationship due to past failed experiences. This is sad, we crave and seek sincere, faithful and long love.
If you pray to the Saints, gradually, over time, fears recede, a woman can gain confidence in tomorrow, in herself, believe in people, let go of her own fears. Sincere faith in prayer and help will help you start a new romantic relationship. A prayer to the Saints will help you find a relationship and marriage for the rest of your life. As they say in the tale "and they lived happily until their death."
There are three rules, conditions, requirements that are mandatory when reading a prayer for love:
- The request words to the Saints and the Lord are pronounced with desire, sincerely and with an open heart. Skepticism while reading can only do harm; be sincere in your own desires. Believe, the Saints will certainly hear and help you;
- Be honest, not only with the Saints, but also with yourself. The Lord will help you only if your heart is not clouded or full of evil thoughts towards others. If your desires harm other people, think about it, maybe you really don't need it;
- It’s better to memorize the text of the prayer. Get rid of pieces of paper, and even more so from smartphones and gadgets. Concentration is important, and when you read the text from a sheet, you can be distracted by other problems and surrounding things.
The maximum power of prayer is received during the great Church Holidays. You can get even more effect if the holiday is timed in honor of the Saint whom you are addressing. When applying all these conditions, the effect and consequences will not be long in coming.
Prayer for a man’s love for St. Nicholas the Wonderworker
You should know that a prayer to St. Nicholas the Wonderworker on a man’s love may not work. The Holy Pleasure knows every time when sin or evil intent lies in the thoughts of a woman. Prayer will not help the girl, if her desire is only joys with a particular man, on the contrary, he will distance the couple from each other.
A prayer for a boyfriend’s mutual love will not help if a woman wants to lead him from someone else’s family. It is better to read words in a whisper, with an open heart and sincere faith in a miracle.
If you feel that you are not ready for a relationship, you should not tempt fate, wait with prayers and petitions. Maybe you should first find yourself, and then your love. If the desire is strong, you can install the icon of St. Nicholas the Wonderworker at home, or go to the temple and pray at the altar. For the first time, the written text will do, but then you should memorize the prayer.
We provide the full text of the prayer to Nicholas the Wonderworker for mutual love:
With a heart full of love, great desire and exhaustion from expectation, I appeal to you, O St. Nicholas the Wonderworker. Do not be angry with my sinful requests, for my thoughts are full of pure and bright love, unite the destinies of God's Slaves (names of women and men) forever and ever. I pray for a miracle, send me my blessing, I renounce all worldly, sinful deeds, I wish only pure love, like the tears of a child. Call us husband and wife, help in asking the Lord for our blessing. Thy will be done. Amen.
How to ask for the blessings of the Virgin?
If a prayer for the love of a particular man, then the most powerful by name is considered to be a prayer to the Most Holy Theotokos. The Great Mother of God loves all of us, so she is ready to listen to everyone’s request and will help everyone she can.
After a woman has chosen one particular man and knows his name, wishes him to be with her, she should carefully prepare for prayer. It’s best to memorize the text. Sincerity of intent is also important, if a woman wants to lead a man away or forcibly attach herself to her, then her prayer can turn against herself. If there is a desire to harm someone, you can send the Lord's anger upon yourself.
Here is the text of the prayer to the Blessed Virgin Mary for help in love with a specific man:
Mother of Our Lord Jesus Christ! I ask you, look into my soul, calm my heart. Find my beloved (name of man) and bring to me. He also seeks my love, as a sheep hears a shepherd, but cannot find him, show him the way to me. The husband of my soul, whom I love, let us love one another until the end of our days. For you, who knows the secrets and sufferings of women, that she has become a beloved wife and a great mother, I humbly ask, in the name of your son, Our Lord. Amen.
If the prayer will be delivered with a representation of the image of the beloved, with pure thoughts and an open heart, the Blessed Virgin Mary will certainly help.
Prayer and prayer to Jesus Christ
Our Lord Jesus Christ has a definite plan and therefore each of us has a role to play. Many great personalities tried to unravel God's plan, but so far no one has succeeded. It is only known that according to His plan, a person should live righteously, engage in spiritual self-improvement and use his knowledge and skills for the benefit of other people. That is why we are all so eager to find our love, the other half, to build and improve the world, sharing happiness and love.
However, the search for your second half is fraught with a lot of difficulties, but do not despair because of this. Strong prayer for the search for one’s love addressed to the Lord can fix everything.
Remember, all spoken words addressed to the Lord must be imbued with faith and sincerity, then God will hear your prayers and come to the rescue. To give a prayer to God, one must adhere to certain conditions and requirements.
As effectively as possible, ask the Lord for help:
- You should visit temples, churches, monasteries more often;
- Put three candles near the image of Jesus Christ; you should also put three candles for each Saint, whose icon is in the temple you visited, for a more effective effect;
- Cross yourself three times;
- Looking at the burning candles, whisper a prayer.
The text of the prayer is as follows:
I stand before you, Lord, with an open heart and soul, only I can open myself to you, only you will hear and calm. You know what I will ask for, about pure earthly love, about a spouse who will be next to one single and dear forever. I beg you, I beg you, give us a simple and thorny path, so that we meet sooner. Point me to him who illuminates my life with light and love. I open my heart and soul to you. For all your will. Amen.
You can also contact the Lord with prayers if the man has changed or the feelings for the husband have cooled off, if the woman is overcome by sinful temptations, or if there are unsuccessful attempts to get pregnant. It will be enough to turn to the icon in the temple and ask for help in your own words, the main thing here is honesty and openness.
How to pray St. Xenia of Petersburg?
According to the archives and memoirs of citizens who lived on the same street with Blessed Xenia, at 18 she married an officer. Officer Andrei Fedorovich served as a singer at court. Already no one can say exactly what qualities he possessed and what character, but in the prime of his life he died, leaving Ksenia. However, she was not afraid of grief, but chose the difficult and thorny path of service to God.
Such love is charitable, it is glorified and exalted. Ksenia was no longer married, although she could, she devoted the rest of her life to another matter. Widowed at the age of 26, she chose eternal service to God and came to the funeral of her husband in the clothes of Andrew. She said that it was not Andrei who died, but Ksenia and everyone thought that the girl was just crazy with grief. But it is this act that shows the exaltation of their marriage, Ksenia sacrificed herself to save the soul of Andrew.
Such a love should be desired by every woman and each should be ready for certain sacrifices in her life, because only through trials can one know true love. In order to call the Saint to help in arranging marriage, the following words of prayer should be read:
O Holy Blessed Xenia, look at us, God's servants (names), your icon bowing, praying and asking for help and protection from you. Extend your hands to the Lord, turn our prayers to him, that he may forgive our sins. We want to unite our souls, rid each other of troubles, share the hardships of life together. We ask you not to reject us, reproached and unworthy, do not turn away from us. As you saved your husband, so save us. Thy will be done. Amen.
How to turn to Saints Peter and Fevronia of Murom?
The patrons of the family, family values, fidelity and marriage in the Orthodox Church are Peter and Fevronia of Murom. Little is known from the life of the Saints, the main reason for their situation is the legend that they both died on the same day, holding hands, because they could not live without each other. The church agreed to bury Peter and Fevronia in one coffin.
From here came the idea that a wife without a husband and a husband without a wife cannot live. In addition to prayers, for women for the love of men, there is a strong prayer for Peter and Fevronia of Murom to please the girl who likes. It is not used so often, due to the fact that men are more used to conquering women on their own, without the use of prayers or conspiracies. But this does not beg its effectiveness.
We provide readers with the text of a prayer addressed to Saints Peter and Fevronia for winning the love of a girl they like:
Oh, God's saints, Saints Peter and Fevronia of Murom! I am asking you, with a prayer, since it was you who proved your loyalty to the Lord, showed us that there is a sacred union of marriage. Only you, patrons of love, can help me in my request before God. During life, you were blessed by the Lord and we are not forgotten after death. I, (name), ask you for faith, hope, love and piety. Offer my prayers to the Lord, that he may illuminate my path with the rays of goodness and his immense love. Let a girl come on the road of my life, with whom I will tie the knot, with whom we will honor and fulfill all the commandments of God. I ask you for infinite and true love, St. Peter and St. Fevronia, do not leave me in a difficult time. May your names be praised forever and ever. Amen.
Prayers for strengthening love in the family
Prayers for a husband’s love for his wife are best read through to Nicholas the Wonderworker. Although the Saint was not married in earthly life, he knew a lot about marriage, honored the holy union and helped all who ask.Next to him lived a family with three daughters, thanks to Nikolai the Miracle Worker all three successfully and happily married. He was revered for his craving for justice, for loyalty and honesty, he loved order, all these qualities are highly valued in marriage.
The pious old man always stood up for offended, weak, deprived. He simply will not be able to refuse a woman who wholeheartedly wants to keep the marriage, to preserve the hearth of her family. After all, marriage is a sacred union, a small earthly church, in which the spouses are called to remain faithful to each other and help in sorrows and joys. The prayer to Nicholas the Wonderworker for mutual love in the family does not have a certain framework, it can be either a ready-made text or words composed by a person independently. The requesting person can also turn to the clergy, order a prayer service there.
Therefore, we provide the sufferers with one of the varieties of texts that were asked by those who asked Nicholas the Wonderworker to preserve the marriage:
About the all-holy and pious bishop, the great Miracle Worker, the Hierarch of Christ, Father Nicholas, the man of God and faithful to a slave, a husband of desires, a chosen vessel, a strong pillar of the church, a bright light, a star shining and illuminating the whole universe: you are a righteous one, like a thriving date, planted in the courts of his Lord, living in the Worlds, thou art blessed with peace, and the peace flowing down the grace of God exudes. You can read further link.
The strongest prayer for love
Before using prayer, it is important to clarify that sacred words addressed to God or the Saints must not be sinful. Women or men reciting a prayer should have pure thoughts, the desire for comfort with a particular person is sinful thoughts. It is also forbidden to wish evil to anyone; prayer will not help to lead a person from another family; this desire, on the contrary, can turn against the reader. Sincerity, purity, fidelity and purity - this is what has been famous and revered at all times in the Orthodox Church.
We advise you to pray in the following ways to find love in life:
- Matron of Moscow decided to pray for the love of a man;
- They pray to Nicholas the Wonderworker to preserve the marriage and strengthen love between spouses;
- They pray to the Lord God to show the righteous path to gaining eternal love and matrimony;
- All the women who suffer and long for pure love pray to the Most Holy Mother of God;
- St. Xenia of St. Petersburg praying girls who are ready for the sake of sincere eternal love to go through all the hardships of life;
- Peter and Fevronia of Murom pray men and women seeking a spouse.
Praying is best at sunrise or sunset. The acquisition of an icon with the image of the one to whom the reader addresses also helps. It is best to pray three times a day, for example to divide, twice in the morning and once before bedtime, or once in the morning and twice in the evening. Be sure to get baptized after prayer and bow. We also recommend that you visit the temple more often and put three candles on the icon of the Saint whom you ask.
